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Ebony Voices
June 1, 2004

Bill Cosby could say much more

Ebony Voices
 
Ron has begun submitting articles & editorials for online publication at Ebony Voices.  We plan to make these documents available on Ron's website, since we cannot link you to his material on their site.


     The hoopla over Bill Cosby’s poignant public pondering about a specific class of blacks has subsided.  Now is a good time for Bill or anyone to say so much more.
     There are other sects of the black community that should be noted for their contribution to the decline of black America.  Most notably, when speaking of parents of black children, church-going parents are not holding up their end of the deal, especially black preachers.
     It’s not a secret.  Black church-going folks have the most ill-behaved kids in town.  Everybody knows some preacher’s kid who is the town hell raiser.  When folks in the church get a title like deacon, usher, board member, church van driver, choir director, or Sunday school teacher, oh Lawd, look out.  It suddenly becomes their sole function to discipline everybody else’s kids but their own.
     Church titleholders can tell you how short your 16-year-old daughter’s dress is, but they won’t admit their own child is selling dope or sleeping with the deacon’s son or the deacon.
     Have you ever noticed church kids at the local all-you-can-eat diner on a Sunday afternoon? Of course you’ve dined with dressed up Ba-bay kids running around the place like they own it. Although there are several signs on the wall that state children under age 10 must be accompanied by an adult, little sneezing, snot-dripping, undisciplined runts are sticking their dirty fingers in the peach cobbler, touching tomatoes then putting them back on the platter, coughing all over the macaroni-n-cheese, and touching every fork in the dispenser.  During this time, the adult in the group is too busy stacking her plate to notice what is going on.
     Thinking all-you-can-eat means all you-can-pile-on-your-plate, they fill their plates and then decide they don’t want it, returning for another plate full of sweets.  On the way back, they drop cookies and Jell-O all over the floor as they bump into other patrons and staff without saying excuse me.  After stuffing themselves, they turn the joint into a playground, using the Walk-Don’t Run sign as first base, while the adults in the group discuss all those “bad” kids at the junior high.

     As the adults enjoy their meal, the little destructive devils run rampant.  Everyone else in the place seems to notice this but the parents.  The wait staff follows behind them picking up their constant mess, too afraid to say anything out of fear of a racial discrimination suit.
     When it’s time to leave, someone with an irritating, altar call sounding voice yells across the establishment for each kid by name.  Sure enough, more than one of them will grab a handful of cookies on the way out, although the rules don’t permit this.  Their area is left a mess with wasted food all over the table and just as much on the floor, and not one copper-coated penny left as a tip.
     Cosby also commented on how many blacks are in the prison system.  Well, a lot of them grew up in the church, and many of them were fathered by preachers.  Oh, yes, many a black preacher’s kid has made crime a career choice, and every “playa” in the hood knows the preacher’s daughter is prime picking when the Rev. Daddy ain’t around.
     Bill Cosby could make a new album talking about black folks who ain’t holding up their end of the deal.  There are thousands of black churches that have decades-old building funds and just as old red carpet with no building permit or plans and no education fund.  There are the black landlords who will rent property in poor conditions in communities where they wouldn’t live, teachers who will teach in public inner-city schools but send their kids to private schools, and the uppity entrepreneur who plays golf at the country club but won’t mentor or tutor a youngster from the old neighborhood.  Let’s not forget about the articulate African-American who thinks nothing of sharing his cell phone conversation with the entire restaurant or movie theater.
     This implied “deal” of the black American community consists of many partners.  It’s not just the poor folks who are not pulling their weight.

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