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The Sunday Journal
Kankakee, Illinois
September 21, 2008

Missing my morning 'Cheers'

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'Convenient' a misnomer at some gas stations
     It’s one of those rare positive signs during the current economic slowdown.  My favorite neighborhood gas station is experiencing some growing pains.
     An addition to the building has been completed.  To better serve its customers, it had to close for a while for remodeling, restocking and some exterior improvements.  We were given two weeks’ notice of the temporary closing.  Last Monday was the first day it was closed until further notice or for about two weeks.
     For the last few years, this place has been my first morning pit stop seven days a week for coffee and newspapers and gas when I needed it.  It is the kind of place where everybody knows everybody’s name.  Sort of a "Cheers" on the go.
     Out of habit, I was almost there before I remembered its closing.  I turned around to get my daily fixes at another neighborhood station.  It didn’t take long before I was reminded how much I would miss my favorite place.  Upon entering the establishment, I observe that the only customer service representative was on the phone.  She may have noticed me as I walked past her to the coffee dispenser.  Then again, she may not have, as she was so enthralled in her "very personal" phone conversation.
     By the time I had my coffee and newspapers, she had made her way back behind the counter continuing her chat about her obvious disappointment that her boyfriend's whereabouts were unknown.  "I don't really care. I ain't worried, either," she admonished the person on the other end of the phone.  Meanwhile, I am standing there with money in hand.  Waiting.  And waiting.
     Without looking at me, she glanced at my purchases and punched in the keys.  Feeling invisible while waiting to hear my total, I glanced at the front-page headlines.  Suddenly, there was a tap on the counter.  Then as if I was hearing impaired, a finger directed my eyes to the green digital readout as she continued her conversation.  I thought maybe I should have apologized for inconveniencing her.  She stuck out her hand and took my $5 bill, made correct change, and placed it on the counter without taking her attention from her phone conversation.  I gladly picked up my stuff and walked out, thinking this is why security cameras were invented.  I could have committed a crime and she would not have been able to identify me.
     I began recalling why my favorite place is my favorite place.  It's because my favorite place is different.  When people walk in, at least three people greet you with a hello.  Even on days when someone may gripe about how much the price of gas is hurting, they will remind you that at this place they only hurt the ones they love.  It does make it feel a little less painful as you're pumping.  They look at you when they take your money; and when they give you your change, they say thank you.  They send you on your way with good-bye, take care, have a good day, see you tomorrow, don't work too hard, or we have to pay the same price for gas, too.
     They make you want to come back.
     After just one day, I am more than ready to come back.  Until then, if I have to drive five miles to find a respectable substitute to satisfy my habit, I will.  I will not go someplace where I am treated like an automated teller machine.
     I could not help but wonder – if this person's missing boyfriend had walked in, would she have even noticed him?

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